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She is there for me when I need her in times of stress and has always been my biggest cheerleader to push me towards my dreams. Full of wisdom and support, I have her on speed dial for both my joys, and for when my stress levels get even slightly elevated. If I cannot reach her at home, I simply track her down on her cell-phone. I once found her at the grocery store and while holding the cell phone in the crevice of her neck, and putting an order in to Ed the butcher, she was able to help me gain perspective within minutes. Don\u2019t get me wrong, I respect when she\u2019s busy, such as the time has told me that she\u2019ll call me back, for something ridiculous like being in the shower. I simply told her that she doesn\u2019t have to call me back\u2026I\u2019ll talk to her while she\u2019s showering!<\/p>\n<p>Being a homeschooling mom of many, I remember a grocery shopping experience of mine where I was grocery shopping with all my children. 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